The deep reason of the violence of the campus is dissected

The deep reason of the violence of the campus is dissected
Near the period of time, " violence of the campus " This word has already pained the public's sensitive nerve several times. It is that one Vice County Magistrate's daughter leads allly to exerting violence with the girl of the school first, a student of Junior Two is beaten up on the spot and go into a coma by more than ten middle school student groups after coming again, then begin to tell vigorously again on the net " The cotton shoe door " . And " cotton shoe door " The incident is shot into a video and uploads the network, make more persons " appreciate " even more Have reached this undisguised campus edition violence film.
It is originally the campus of a pure land, why can become the distributing centre that have a fist fight and do violence? It is not strong enough to tie up a chicken originally " The pale-faced scholar " ,And why become ferocious in appearance? For this reason, reporter (hereafter referred to as " writes " )Interview national-level bright Peng, teacher of psychological consultation, ' Hereafter referred to as " Peng " ),With " cotton shoe door " The incident is an example, canvass the profound reason why the violence of the campus produces.
Write: While having news about the violence of the campus that is being spread pleasantly constantly recently, why is the act of violence frequent in the campus appearance?
Peng: Because minor's body and mind has not reached maturity yet, so, there is imitating nature and practise the sex in very obvious area of their behavior, that is to say, their own some behaviors will be probably through imitating, in the light of learning. The reason why produce the act of violence, because its imitating is doing mischief to a great extent. This kind of imitation may come from the family, family's violence of quarrelling etc. that for example parents curse and beat child, couple at first. If things go on like this, the children will probably know and will not take the violence seriously, will totally face the fearful with no fears for the interesting psychology.
In addition, the network game is a important reason for violence of the campus too. There are a lot of violence elements in the network game, the scene of among them kill, rob, fighting etc. is very common. Teenagers have not been ripe because of the psychology, often influenced by network violence game, form a habit as time passes, and begin to be accustomed to the act of violence in actual life slowly.
Write: As " cotton shoe door " Persons who exert violence of the incident, they do not have " younger sister of cotton shoe " Injure, but adopted undisguised personality to insult the way, as to this how to think about?
Peng: " cotton shoe door " Girl that exert violence under incident, have one psychology of distortion in fact, they so that victim the goal, but take the way in which personality insults, therefore, their psychology is twisted very much. The production of this kind of psychology, because very great anger exists in its heart to a great extent, and then " Younger sister of the cotton shoe " Have regarded as and led the target off. Been bullied, will look for a smaller and weaker marriage partner to bully, by solving the hating of mind.
The production of this kind of psychology probably because they will lack caring about in the family, lack the backing of the teacher, classmates in the school. This kind lacks the child supporting to encourage for a long time, after its negative mood is accumulated, will produce the angry sense, then, they will possibly look for one to lead things off and give vent to.
Their own sum " Younger sister of the cotton shoe " There is no profound hatred, if " younger sister of cotton shoe " Injure, will probably receive the legal sanction. Adopt personality to insult this " Appearance is not seen wounded " Act of violence,last anger that is one's own, while it can avoid not receiving by punishing severe.
Write: A girl directs to the external world against one's own abuse, holds a kind of attitude not mattering. She says: "It is I that have done wrong, it is right to scold me, it is difficult to pass that I do not matter. "
Peng: Present education has undoubtedly lacked equally and respecting this lesson. As parents, teacher, may seldom go to respect the children's will. Some children have made mistakes, parents will let the child go down on one's knees and admit a fault; The child has unsatisfactory marks of the examination, parents probably curse and beat the child, and these are totally insulted by personality. As time passes, the children will have been used to it gradually, and use in actual life, because it is a kind of insult that their consciousness is less than letting people go down on one's knees, curse and beat people, will be thought this to be very normal instead.
Write: These children are besieging " Younger sister of the cotton shoe " While,it shoot by mobile phone somebody, and on net when passing to, how is the behavior understood?
Peng: All know, it is incorrect to fight, but these girls will probably start from the game psychology as the adults, have regarded hitting the person as a game. When shooting the video, perhaps they will regard this section of videos as a kind of capital that can be shown off, this section of videos have been stored for two months in girl's mobile phone, it is on net to pass to finally. The reason why she keep the video, might want, bring, show off just. Can be found out from this point, they may seldom have things that is worth showing off at ordinary times, such as praise of school grade, teacher,etc..
In their heart, in fact wish eagerly to be appreciated, valued by others. In actual life, if their achievement is not good, the teacher will choose them as difference,etc. to grow, family may not like them. So, they have to think the thing that can be shown off let others look at high oneself with this a little, because the thing which others can not make, can't strike, oneself can be done.
Write: On " cotton shoe door " In the incident, some children totally start from a kind of " join in the fun " Psychology come one that participate in,this kinds of psychology is what what reason causes?
Peng: The children all have selfprotectionist psychology, this is easy to understand. There may be two kinds of ideas in their minds: First of all, if I do not hit her, others will suspect it is I that steal the things; Secondly, if I do not touch it, will be scorned for by everybody, is stood up isolatedly.
Write: After such a thing happens, which respects introspection should be carried on in our family, school?
Peng: As the school, must improve the legal system consciousness of teacher and students. In this incident, we find a lot of teachers' legal system consciousness is very thin, fight, mention student a very much high height go, know. So, the school should carry on the legal education to teacher and student more, make the children in adolescence form a kind of balanced mechanism in the heart, thus control one's own behavior well and avoid causing the injury to others.
While parents, school are paying close attention to student's achievement, should pay attention to the child's psychological health more. The children's psychology is very fragile, need guide help of teacher, parents, it is not enough for if this to pay attention to, may cause the children to produce and twist the psychology. Now, much students of high IQ, low EQ have appeared, on the issue that really happen in the education of explaining us, so, the school, family and even society should pay close attention to the children's personality's training more, care about the children's EQ education.
The child who pats the video may only regard this as the game, there is no very great evil intention subjectively. This kind of behavioral grieved, lie in she does not know how to respect people, does not have a sound personality to control one's own behavior oneself. And the equal, idea respected, it is the basic key element that should possess in a person's personality. If our education does not pay attention to the cultivation of child's personality, EQ, then, under the influence of this kind of structure of education, the children will produce a lot of questions, some questions will even influence their future generation. Therefore, in fact " cotton shoe door " The child hitting the person in the incident, itself is a victim too.
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